Do You Need to
Catch a Cheating Spouse?
Do you
suspect that your spouse is cheating? Have you seen any of the telltale signs that
your spouse is unfaithful? Do you have
that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach that tells you that something
just isn't right?
You
obviously must find out the truth. You
have to figure out if your spouse has been lying to you and then, if so, catch
him or her in the act so that you have irrefutable proof. With new technology, you can find out most
anything.
Because
of today's technology, it is easier than ever to meet people and to keep in
contact with them. If your husband or
wife is cheating, he or she is most likely making use of technology to keep in
touch, such as with a computer or cell phone with internet connection. Both of these types of technology offer solid
proof that your spouse has been cheating.
If
possible, get a hold of your spouse's cell phone. You can easily look through the dialed and
received phone calls. Look for numbers
that you do not recognize. You will find
that obtaining your spouse's phone is not as difficult as it may seem. He or she has to sleep sometimes and take
showers. These are the most opportune
times to check for this type of evidence.
Also don't forget about the infamous text message. Look through the conversations that have been
saved to the phone and find out if your spouse is talking dirty with someone
other than you. You can also use reverse
phone locators to find out personal information about the owners of phone
numbers that you do not recognize.
If you
suspect that your spouse is utilizing his or her computer to cheat, you can
install spyware software programs that will track any kind of behavior that you
are looking for. If you do not want to
go this route, you can always simply check the history that is saved in the
computer's internet browser. If there is
no saved history, it is possible that your spouse knows how to delete the
history, and this can be a sign that something is going on behind your back.
There
are also other ways that you can catch your spouse if you suspect that he or
she is cheating on you. You can attach a
GPS tracking device to his or her vehicle and you will be
able to see exactly where he or she goes when they leave the home. You can install a hidden camera in your home or wherever you think it would be most beneficial.
In extreme
cases, you can also ask your spouse to submit to a lie detector test. If he or she refuses to submit, then you can
be somewhat certain that something must be going on.
If you
suspect that your marriage is being ruined by a torrid affair, it is time to
take action.